I recently purchased a BluAlert Vibrating bracelet from thinkgeek.com. While I'm at work I can't have my cellphone on my desk and it has to be on vibrate so with this bracelet I know when I'm getting a call without getting in trouble. Anyway... On my old phones I could alter which services I wanted Bluetooth to utilize after pairing a device, like I could choose to de-select headset if all I was going to use my stereo headset for was for Stereo Headset. I cant find a way to pick & choose which services I want when I pair to my bracelet and everytime I answer my phone and its paired to my bracelet I have to "Activate Handset" to take the call even though the bracelet doesnt have a mic or speaker it still takes the call..... Any clues on this? Is there a hack, file, or something? It just seems for such a high tech pda phone to have an achilles heal like this is weird.. I appreciate all your help.