Hi i am having some trouble with my HTC Touch, I cant find a way to get the wifi working, there is nothing in the connections area with an icon saying wifi, cant find it anywhere

That's because the Touch does not have WiFi.

Really i was looking at the manual and it says that it does. Wow that stinks

The GSM Touch has WiFi, but not the Sprint nor the Verizon versions. Since your avatar says Sprint, I'm assuming that your talking about the latter.