Seems that I solved my own problem. Going to the phone and checking the 'Advanced functionality' box (the forbidden box as I always call it) worked. The mobile center and the motorola updater both saw the change, reloaded software and all is well now.

Hope this helps someone in the future.

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Searching for the ultimate Stereo Bluetooth headset. Intended uses - Gaming on laptop AND handsfree calling on my Mogul.