If you are able to receive a notification in your mms inbox when someone send's you a picture, then you are so close, you don't even know. My biggest problem was getting the message to goto my MMS inbox, and not just send me a text message telling me to go online and check it.

I think that when I added the picture messaging to my account, that is when they started to automatically go to my mms inbox and show who it was from and the size, but it just wouldn't never download a picture, or it would download that little b&w very small thumbnail. So if it is already going to your mms inbox, then it may only be a little server settings change, and you may be up and running.

The server setting's that I''m using have not been posted anywhere on the forums that I have seen. I totally stumbled across these on my phone in a log file....