No, you haven't been "had". If that was the kind of business these people were running, there would be a lot of complaints in this thread. As I mentioned in one of my previous posts, the tracking number provided never worked for me but I obviously still got my product (and so have many others as evidenced by the posts in this thread). See Chris's posts for what kind of timeline you should be expecting between paying and receiving your product. If you want a more concrete update, just email her and calmly ask what the status is (but its just silly to ask if you've been "had" when clearly people are getting their product).