I just recently did this and I missed a few things the first few times I tried. I had the same issue...."waiting phone download" until I uninstalled Activesunv and tried COM5. Then everything worked for me.

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IPAQ 3835....Gone
Samsung I700....History
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[size="2"]Moto Q9M owner...
rocking the VzW Touch Pro 2 =)