Wow thanks so much guys. I think I was able to forward those ports to my laptop. Also which is the IP address of the router? I am assuming it is the "WAN IP" and not the LAN IP?

So as long as you point towards your router and set up the forwarding, thats how the phone finds my laptop/client?

I still cannot get it to work. I have plugged in my routers IP (WAN IP) and forwarded the ports but it says cannot connect. Sigh.