Text messages are not included with a data plan. They are either purchased as a separate feature or paid for as you use them. I believe the "feature" you refer to that "uses SMS to get the phone to sync" is Wireless Sync. Those SMS messages will not cost you anything and you don't need a text messaging plan for them.

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Motorola Q, WM5 -- Verizon Wireless, U.S.A.