Hey - last time i checked, this is still a free country. i see two opinions expressed that are somewhat at odds with each other. since we are all different and have different experiences that contribute to who we are and probably most important the last time i checked, there is no one sure-fire way to raise kids that is guaranteed to be fool-proof, totally without risks, etc., it's great that you are both :coolquick and maritza can benefit from your comments :redspotda