Maritza and all,

I was only relaying my experience. In most matters concerning your children, you will find that everybody is more than willing to give you advise. The best thing that any parent can do is use common sense and kindness while gently smiling and tell the advisor to take a hike.(me included). Use YOUR jugement and enjoy them.

I have sent a PM to coolcat explaining my rationale and apologize to the rest of you for suggesting controversial advise.

I'm going back to phones now..
Bo