With a 14 y.o. daughter - going on 20, i have to agree dw.

btw maritza - congrats - i was ambivalent about kids - but now wouldn't give up the experience for anything in the world. just wait until they get to the stage when they say "i hate you" when you tell them no (happens around 2-4) - i had such a hard time not laughing out loud and trying to treat the situation seriously - "now did you mean that you hate me, it is such a strong word - or did you mean that you hate what i said?" the looks that evoked were priceless :alieneyes